I must make it clear that I'm not out to get Ben personally. It won't affect anyone, or my climbing. Frankly, I don't really care. However many friends he's just made, by writing emotively, again, he's not explained anything.
If some of this seems direct then it should've been said last time and I don't want to argue round in circles anymore.
Personally I just want the record to be set straight and the `rules of engagement' on these matters to be clarified in future.
This thread is a rather amusing 100 poster, in that originally I thought it was about a more academic point, hell I thought this thread was informed until it started on about staged climbing porn -again-. Regardless of whether he was right or wrong, the question of was Rich right or not to accuse Ben in public, and should people do this sort of thing in general was what I was getting at?
In reply to Ben Heason:
> for various reasons,
Do tell.
> we didn't
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> Rich is now not so sure.
Is this definitive, on his behalf?
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>Sometimes this can be detrimental to him and to others, as >in this case.
Whether it was or not is precisely of interest.
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> would be better discussed in private.
I beg to differ.
> It’s a well known cliché, but there are two sides to every > story.
Here're two more:
- "You throw enough shit, it sticks."
- "How much shit do you need, how sticky does it need to be, and how much sticky shit do you need to stick?"
I made the last one up but how we should differentiate between the two cases is a matter of greater importance. What do you think is the case here?
> I do not believe that a public forum is the best way to
> examine both sides.
I actually think there is no better way to fairly examine both sides. Ben's been generous with his words and time but he's shown he's more than capable of defending himself.
It would help if the facts were stuck to and waffleshite wasn't also posted, but there you go. With all such novice rubbish, is it any wonder that anything (in fact everything) interesting or controversial is only communicated privately between people who respect each others opinions? Or at the crag. There are certain things you can't concisely explain, that it's best just to figure out for yourself by climbing.
I'm willing to indulge people rather than move to a medium with limited space, and limited contributions and fact checking, and distracting glossy photos of people who actually had ropes coming out of their flies. The mags are not the place for this sort of thing. They're not open or unbiased enough.
Noone can expect to require proof that Ben felled a tree when nobody heard it and be reasonable. But there's more than this and especially if you're funded by the climbing world (that's all of us), then you should set the climbing record straight. Where you can easily do this but don't, then what are we to think?
I don't think it's black or white. I don't think it's as black as that, but I certainly need convincing it's all white. I'm more than willing to ignore the odd indiscretion (e.g. Gary again, I've enjoyed too many of his routes) but I think there's an extremely interesting story about the way different climbers are motivated, and operate, on climbs of contrasting styles (in every way) and an important lesson lies at the bottom of this. Deciding not to finish something after you've started something doesn't help, it does the exact opposite. I'm sorry I have to say this but as the professional, Ben's under a lot more obligation to explain himself than Rich is.