In reply to Caralynr: I don't see it as a gender thing, I think its natural to weigh up your progress in a sport if you are commited to it, if you dont give a 'f', and thats a perfectly valid standpoint too, then you won't bother with ticking and recording your progress.
Its a bit like running in races and never bothering about your times. Thats fine, but it infers your ambition lies in other directions which is ok, it might be your job (mine never was) or it could be making a success of family life, maybe thats why my sporting ambitions always overlapped with my partners and my children. I dont see a problem with what is called 'Ticking', its just having goals in life. We may all choose different targets, some will choose the Wilson books, mine is the Craggs book others will just choose going through the grades in a guidebook, I see nothing wrong with this.
Equally I see nothing with not caring in the slightest, and just going out and enjoying climbing or walking or running for their own sake, providing you dont criticise people who take it just a bit more seriously.