In reply to Aiezsedai:
Well, it depends just how dirty your Gore-tex clothing is.
If there is a lot of obvious oil contamination (which includes body oil), then it's unlikely that soap-based washes will be able to adequately remove it. So your are best off doing a detergent wash, using a liquid detergent*.
Once your garment looks 'clean', you will then need to remove the traces of detergent to allow the DWR to work again. This can be done with one of the proprietary soap washes (e.g. Nikwax TechWash), or with pure soap flakes.
The other thing to remember is that washing machines that are used with powder in a dispenser tray are often still full of detergent, and this will be washed into the garment in the rinse cycles. So it's important to make sure the entire water path is clean.
With a bit of luck, this should give you a nice, clean garment with a working DWR. If the DWR isn't beading very well (i.e. water is soaking in to the face fabric, rather than running off), you might try a cool tumble dry, which re-distributes the DWR within the face fabric, and is often enough to revitalise it.
If this still doesn't make the DWR work, then you need to re-proof the garment with a wash-in, or spray-on DWR treatment such as manufactured by Grangers or Nikwax. Follow the instructions on the tin...
* The latest cleaning products from Grangers aren't soap-based, but apparently use a detergent that will wash out, but is strong enough to remove oils. I've not tried it, so can't comment.