In reply to AlisonSmiles:
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> I went to a solicitor, I don't think it was much over £50 and felt kind of worth it. They keep a copy, I keep a copy.....
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> My current will is, however, capricious ... which is what happens when you have no progeny.
When you do have kids it gets a little more tricky, My wife and I drew up ours when our kids were young, after discussions with my sister and BIL. They were named as those that we wanted to take care of our kids, ( and vice versa) and of course there was money to go to the guardians for their care until the were no longer minors.
The solicitor keeps originals, we all have copies. ( kids are now 21 to 30, so my sister no longer needs to sweat that she will end up with 5 kids, nor do my wife and I (as it was a reciprocal arrangement) Phew!
My father and I went to the family solicitor when he was diagnosed with a cancer, and drew up a will which was bit late in the day, but better than just avoiding the subject.
My mother was a nurse and is a bit more forward thinking , and she has a will and she has also paid her funeral, chosen her music etc, before she get too old , or incapable. ( so we don't bury her on the cheap -she jokes ) I think!
We also bought a family plot at the local cemetery when my father died, and got a big stone left plenty of room on it for inscriptions!
I am now fairly happy that both my wife and I and my mother( and also my FIL) all have our affairs in order, and we can all now concentrate on coffin dodging for as long a we can, but all knowing we will not be leaving a legal mess for others. I think it was pricier than £50 quid though, £250-£300 comes to mind (per will. )
Maybe if you do get a Will drawn up, it may be cheaper in the long run, to anticipate children, elderly parents care etc. and try and make some provision for this from your assets/ insurances or whatever, even a codicil to an existing will is pricey.