In reply to Philip:
To answer your original question:
If you have at least 36 friends, you have better than even chances of having at least two pairs share a birthday*.
As it turns out, regardless of how many friends you have, there are *never* better than 50:50 odds that exactly one pair share a birthday. The best you can do is 28.0% with 39 friends.
* For the pedants: this happens to be true whether or not you consider a triple-birthday coincidence (a, b, c) to count as three distinct birthday pairs (a, b) and (a, c) and (b, c).