In reply to grommet:
> I think they're not listening, and not trying to retain the information, for whatever reason. They think they won't understand it, so they don't.
They're scared, and when they're scared, they won't think straight, and won't learn. Scared they won't understand and will look foolish, scared they'll do something wrong and all their money will disappear, scared they'll break the computer somehow.
Whenever my dad gets a new piece of electronics (especially if I buy it...), he'll complain that he can't understand the remote, can't read the letters, etc. But when I next go and see him, his fingers are flying around the buttons without looking...
I can't say that I know how to overcome this fear...