In reply to Removed User:
> But I was outside, exposed to the "real world" not sitting inside exposed to the fantasy one. Not sure which one is better but I know my preference.
This is a concept which younger generations wont share with you, the internet isn't some virtual fantasy world, of course if can be, just like "real life" can. You can while away your hours playing minecraft or you can spend hours with your head in lord of the rings. Or you can have a deep and meaningful conversation with someone face to face, over the phone, over email. You can look a word up in a dictionary, or online. The internet is as real as anything else. As people find out when they post the wrong things in the wrong places or become the victims of online bullying. Teaching your kids the online world is fantasy probably isn't a good start
There's lots of good research out there re childhood development and technology, the 2 hours a day in front of a screen thing for example, is outdated nonsense that a lot of people still follow. There was a psychologist on the radio the other day who seemed to think 13 was a significant age, I've forgotten everything else she said.
I think in reality there are probably a lot of parents who aren't able to stop their kids doing things online, I know there would have been nothing anyone could have done to prevent me from looking at what I wanted from 12 onwards. If you really cant control their online world then the only thing you've really got is hoping they'll at least be able to talk to you about it. There's stacks of reading in the never never fantasy google world if you're interested, as it's obviously something a lot of people are concerned about.