In reply to Enty:
I spent a few years researching and mulling over what telescope I wanted. I had a wish list of the biggest and best scopes in the world but was limited by two things, budget and 'she who must be obeyed'.
I wanted the biggest and fastest telescope that I could afford, with what I was willing to pay. This meant that I had to ditch any ideas of a computer goto product or motorised tracking systems because most of the cost would go on a gadget rather than the money going on optics. And just like in photography, its the optics that are the most important aspect, because if you have crap optics, you have a crap view.
I was also limited to design/build of telescope too, which meant that fancy stuff like maksutov style telescopes were too expensive. I could only afford a long tube with a mirror at the end to collect light, meaning a dobson telescope. Nothing wrong with dobson's because you get more bang for your bucks, and this was what I needed most.
I'll put it this way, your mate's telescope costs £360-£420 depending on where you shop, while my choice of telescope with the exact same eyepieces thrown in and better magnification cost £128. That's just shy of £300 for the privilege of the telescope moving for itself, rather than me nudging it with my hand. Bit of a no brainer.
My next criterion had to be portability because if it was too big or heavy then it would become a dust gatherer and that would piss off 'she who must be obeyed'. My dream choice would have been an 8 inch dobson telescope coming in at a respectable £430. This baby would have given me 'the world and more' with the exact same eyepieces as your telescope but would have had brighter images and double the image potential. The down side was that it would been huge and feking heavy. It would have been as tall as me and almost the same weight. We are talking 60kgs+ here. This meant that it would not exactly be portable and would need lots of love and care to keep it in focus.
I went for portability, and ease of setting up. My chosen scope can easily sit on the back seat of a car and be set up in under 5 minutes flat from removing from the car, to placing in the eyepiece and aiming at a target.
Don't let the Fisherprice design or cost get in the way, this is an excellent bit of kit for a novice, casual observer, such as myself.
http://www.firstlightoptics.com/dobsonians/skywatcher-heritage-130p-flextub...
I too have the same eyepieces as you, and I think that they come as standard with practically every new budget scope, much as in the same way as kit lenses for budget dSLR's.
I soon discovered that the 10mm and 25mm plus barlow were not going to cut the mustard if I wanted to view Jupiter or the Moon. This meant that I had to choose the best eyepiece that I was willing to budget for, which was as little as possible. At first I went for an eyepiece at the maximum theoretical range that my scope would allow, 260x, giving me a 5mm eyepiece. I bought my eyepiece from a reputable website and could not wait to try it out. I had never been so disappointed in my life. The image of Jupiter was so dull as to be a grey blob. And to make matters worse the image would only stay in view for a couple of seconds before zooming out of sight.
My next problem was that the eyepiece not only magnified Jupiter but it also magnified all the atmospheric pollution and air currents as well. All this meant that I had an expensive eyepiece that could only be used maybe once or twice a year, weather permitting.
Thankfully the website that I bought the eyepiece from had exceptional customer service and allowed me to return the item and replace it with another of my choice. This time I had more realistic options and I went for a 15mm eyepiece. This gave me 43x and 87x (including the barlow) magnifications which was perfect for Jupiter and outstanding for the Moon.
I can not rate this site highly enough for extra eyepieces.
http://www.skysthelimit.org.uk/telescope%20eyepieces.html
As for forums to seek advice, I suggest
http://stargazerslounge.com/
And to buy scopes, only because I got mine from there
http://www.firstlightoptics.com/
As for books get Turn left at Orion
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Turn-Left-Orion-Guy-Consolmagno-ebook/dp/B009019V5U...
As for software, Steliarium is free for PC and mac but costs a few quid on Android. If you have an Android bit of kit, spend the money because it is superior to Google's free version
http://www.stellarium.org/
And BTW, the Moon is feking bright, so think about buying a filter.