In reply to Enty:
There is actually a truly great song about that inaccessible lady in the past who never gave you anything like a chance...
"So now I'm going back again
I got to get to her somehow
all the people we used to know
they're an illusion to me now
some are mathematicians
some are carpenters' wives
I don't know how it all got started
I don't know what they do with their lives..."