In reply to The New NickB:
As has been said, the split and events leading up to it up is the life changing trauma, but the decree absolute brings a mixture of feelings. Finality, sense of failure, relief, sadness and a sense of freedom.
Technical question. If you have the decree nisi but are waiting for the decree absolute and are filling in a legal form (different matter to the divorce) which asks you to tick the box relating to your marital status, which is correct?
Single, widowed, separated, divorced?
Obviously the first two are out.
Post edited at 08:28