In reply to goldmember:
At Christmas we always have a limit on Christmas presents for each other of about £50 and try and be a bit creative, often lots of little things. We then treat ourselves to a weekend away in a nice hotel in January.
Birthdays are a bit different, we usually ask what the other want and add a surprise present as well. Jill's birthday is only a few weeks off so she will be getting some new fell shoes, some perfume and something else I haven't decided yet. Obviously we will go for a nice meal as well.
All a bit rambling, but the point is, you should know better than most what your other half likes.
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