In reply to jsmcfarland:
You're not the only person to have thought of this. Although you are right in saying that there has not been much written on it- if anything in blogs. There are a few authors that have tried to express the difference in terms of the physiological characteristics of the climbers, the following two references might be of interest, if academic journals are your thing:
Delignières, D., Famose, J. -P., Thépaut-Mathieu, C., & Fleurance, P. (1993). A psychophysical study of difficulty rating in rock climbing. International Journal of Sport Psychology, 24, 404-404.
Baláš, J., Panáčková, M., Strejcová, B., Martin, A. J., Cochrane, D. J., Kaláb, M., et al. (2014). The relationship between climbing ability and physiological responses to rock climbing. Scientific World Journal, 2014(678387), 1-6.
Its certainly not an easy question to answer. There are quiet a few questions that emerge, e.g. is it a purely psychological effect of the grade you can't climb always feeling harder (perhaps an obvious feeling?), resulting in a 'extended' gap between future grades and a 'compression' of the grades you can already climb; there will also be diminishing gains when you begin to reach your physical/ psychological potential- e.g. you will have to train harder, smarter for longer to make the next grade.
Keep your eyes peeled over the next couple of years. A world wide multi-centre study is in the works that will be looking at the relationship between technical, tactical, physical and psychological components of a climbers performance and how these relate to climbing grades. It almost certainly won't provide a definitive answer, but will be a good start.