In reply to sbattams:
I have climbed all day in rock shoes and in boots, depends on the conditions and the grade of the route. My current rock shoes are not as comfy as my last pair, so if the route wasn't too hard I might choose boots.
I notice you have Avalance/Redwall/longlands on your wish list. I did that in boots, partly because there is a longish walk in and out as well as the climb itself and it was easier than carrying boots. As you say on a route like that a small rucksac, perhaps one between the two of you is usual on a full day. Carried by the second on each pitch usually.
For a smaller route of 2 or 3 pitches at crag, with a simple walk off I would tend to bear the pain, where the rock shoes and any pack with lunch etc. would be left at the bottom.
I have seen people take off their rock boots when belaying to give their feet a rest. Just be careful you don't drop one, or subsequent pitches become more 'interesting'.
Where are you based. I am always after partners for lower grade climbs
Ben