In reply to sheelba:
Besides the other points made, sometimes, even if we don't like it. S##t happens.
Sometimes that s##t is harder than we are, sometimes we learn from it, sometimes we miss it.
As much as I hate reflective practice (when its a forced exercise), it is a valuable tool. +1 for the public posting.
How many people actually try out their gear fully? Its all placed in judgement with what experience is available, I normally back down or back up when I think I'm in danger - if possible. And to be honest, rarely fall on trad. However there are many times when I climb and I think the gear is OK (or know it's dubious) and keep going. But that's part of the game. Risk and risk management.
In reply to MR dude, personally, if I can get to A&E under my own steam then that's what I'll do. I guess its an extension of being self sufficient and taking responsibility for myself. But that too may be naive or fool hardy.
Getting over the mental issues after an accident.... I have no advice to offer, but would be interested to hear your experience when you next tie on. Good luck and stay lucky!