In reply to edunn:
> Social Media and staying in touch with friends/ family/ society in general is becoming a more and more important part of life (almost essential to some).
True to a degree. The form this 'staying in touch' takes though seems to have less and less value in some ways. It's a double edged sword. For example, I'm friends on Facebook with my Swedish relatives and see what's going on in their lives in ways I never did before, which is great. But, 'liking' pictures of them and their kids isn't the same as the hand-written letters I used to exchange with my cousins. Showing my age there - actual letters....on paper.....written with a pen.....and posted!!!!
> Imagine the time (and therefore money) your wife saves by being able to make a quick call or comment via social media to friends and family, rather than writing a letter or driving round to their house etc.
Here's the problem, but perhaps I'm just revealing my own weakness: most social media interactions aren't really meaningful, even if they do have some value as social glue. Getting distracted for five minutes by watching a cat video, or reading some '10 actors who used to be ugly' article some friend has linked to...etc, isn't really the brave new world of social interconnectivity. It's literally a waste of valuable time. If it was a question of making a useful comment, sending a quick message about something real, organising something useful etc, rather than just spending a few minutes getting distracted by most of the crap that goes around on social media, then yes, it's a great time saving efficiency.
> The social capital gained from this is also immense. (Some) people now judge you by your appearance on social media, rather than, say, how smart your house is, etc etc.
The flip side is how easy it is to undo yourself on social media. There are quite a few people I've 'hidden' as a result of their constant trivial nonsense, their constant fake positivity or humble bragging, their constant pictures of their awful children etc..... or their 'Britain First' links
Easy to diminish yourself too in the eyes of others by lack of care in your online presence.