In reply to chris fox:
> I remember reading an article where she said she wanted to be gone by 70 as she didn't want to just grow old and fade into nothing relying on people to keep her alive (or words to that effect).
How terribly sad. I know a guy who's 87. Admittedly he's not in the best of health and probably hasn't got an awful lot longer. But... he's loved by his wife, his kids, his grandkids, his great-grandkids. Every day of his life he gives and receives love. Because his wife and he brought their kids up with great care, the whole lot of them are happy, well-balanced folk - no dysfunctionality at all.
By rights he should have died 60 years ago, when he was 17. Joined the Navy under-age in WW11. Ended up on the Murmansk convoys. Horrific hardship. Chances of survival negligible - but he did survive. After that, he was headed for Japan. Was saved by the Nagasaki bomb. His ship would almost certainly have been hit by suicide pilots the next day; with the Japanese surrender, they were stood down. And now, here he is, all these years later.
David Hooper, late of this parish, once mentioned to me that, for him, the point of life was a) to have fun and b) to leave the world a slightly better place. David succeeded on both counts; as will the guy above. Cilla Black gave a lot of people a lot of pleasure; that's not a bad epitaph. I hope she had some fun along the way.
Mick