In reply to hamsforlegs:
I think the outlander and the subaru outback are pretty similar in terms of performance off road. I've had a 2005 outback for just over a year and think it's a pretty well built car. Parts are expensive but the build quality is good and you've got to love the engine. mpg is between 30-36 depending how you drive so not super thirsty for a 2.5ltr petrol and it's really nice to drive.
Off road it's limited like all cars but it's as good as any of them and perfectly capable in snow and muddy tracks if you've got good tyres on, of course you'll bottom it out pretty easily compared to a higher 4x4 although it's higher than many "off-road" cars and the hi/low gear box is nice.
The back is small compared to (for example) a focus estate but it's big enough to sleep in and if you take the seats out the back it can be a nice wee car camper for two. The seats don't fold perfectly flat but pretty close.
I think with all 4x4 cars if you're going anywhere you might need it you need to be looking at a proper off road vehicle with diff lock, low ratio gear box and a high ground clearance but if you live in the country and like getting about when the snow comes (or getting up your drive) then 4x4 in a car is nice to have. Having said that I've driven a front wheel drive car past stuck 4x4's in the snow more than once, it's what you've got on your wheels that matter.
Post edited at 20:35