In reply to Hyphin:
> Well you do seem to have understood the gist of it.
I'm paid to extract sense from incoherence.
> Yes I work in law enforcement.
> So my powers of observation and deduction are not too bad, hope you are indeed "off-duty" at the moment and not wasting more tax payers money on here.
Always intrigues me when people make comments like this. (Apart from being a good old fashioned ad hominem attack). Engaging in debate - and inviting a reply - whilst complaining about the fact I am actually replying.
As for "wasting
more tax payer money" - an interesting illumination of your views as to what I do during my working hours.
And, yes, I am off-duty. Not wasting your, or even my, tax payments.
> I'm not entirely sure what that has to do with the legal definitions of criminal offences - specifically rape, as determined by parliament and picked apart by the court system, but I'm sure you're the expert.
> Suspect most of us common folk would hope that those involved in law enforcement would have at least a passing acquaintance with the "legal definition of criminal offences"; especially the more swerious ones such as rape and murder.
You'll be pleased to know I do. Your previous post appeared to be blaming law enforcement for the legal definitions.
Oddly perhap, the legal definitions that provoke the most confusion, nit-picking and stated cases are often the simplest. Theft for example has legal cases which wrestle with every phrase of the definition.
> Definitely no expert but my lay understanding, very much in lay terms, is sexual intercourse (though I think the definition may have been broadened beyond only penetrative) without consent: including when the victim was unable to give informed consent.
> As you so rightly point out I'm not an expert, but perhaps starting by looking at the legislation around gaining goods and services by deception might be an idea. When you have a completely fictitious identity and lifestyle (all funded by the tax payer) and hide fundamental facts about yourself which you could reasonably assume would exclude you from being considered by your victim as a sexual partner of choice, you have crossed the line; albeit that is only my uninformed opinion. I would suggest that to pretend to be single, childless or to hide anything else that would otherwise cause your victim to see you as a totally unsuitable partner, likewise crosses the line. A quick Google gives a good example,
http://www.theguardian.com/world/2010/jul/21/arab-guilty-rape-consensual-se...
Again - as I attempted to highlight - the "line" that must be crossed is where all the problems arise. Already you have attempted to clarify it as the lie would make you "a totally unsuitable partner" - is that subjectively? Objectively? How do you define "totally" - does that include lying about being single?
There is law around "consent" and exactly how it relates to deception. And largely it tries to steer clear - for the reasons highlighted above about where a line is drawn.
I'm not sure what the law is in Israel - as per your example. If a Jew lied about their religion in order to have sex with a muslim in the UK - it wouldn't be rape.
> Again, while admitting my lack of expertise in this area; I'd question whether this could be reasonably termed a relationship. I'm not even convinced it requires MORE legislation; the victim was unable to give informed consent as her assailant withheld facts which he knew that, if disclosed, would have led to his victim refusing to have sex with him; if it was my daughter/son I'd certainly be calling that rape.
Some of these women had children with these officers, they went on holiday with them, they took them to meet family, socialised with them - I'm not sure what you could call that other than a relationship.
If your "line" is now "witholding facts that might lead to the victim refusing to consent to sex" - then we are back to lying about your income, single status etc.
Don't misunderstand me - I am not supporting these officers actions. They may well be criminal, they were wholly unethical and certainly appear morally repugnant. But it wasn't rape.
If we want to introduce a new offence of "sex by deception" or even amend the offence we have - then that might be the way forward.
However, for the reasons I have repeatedly expressed, I don't think that the law becoming involved in personal relationships is something that should be encouraged.