In reply to Babika:
> I don't know how old you are Andy but, pretending you were 59 how would you feel if someone said you "had a lot in common" with an 84 year old woman!!!
Depends how conservative you are as an individual. When I was around 40, I had a close relationship with a woman twice my age. I used to stay with her in her house in Coniston, go sailing on Coniston Water in her racing dinghy and she taught me the basics of sailboarding as well as giving me all sorts of interesting beta on places to go up the Old Man of Coniston. What's not to like about a relationship like that, which had the added benefit that my missus didn't appear to mind? If you're Mr or Mrs Conventional then I guess you would harumph at such an idea and tuck your shirt safely into your underpants, but not everyone is quite so confined in their thinking and relationships.
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