In reply to Dave B:
> Sadly many people are neither aware or mindful of dangers of the sea. Surprisingly we have relatively few deaths each year. Tragically, we do have some. Sadly lay rescuers often become victims. Even trained individuals make mistakes of judgement or unexpected occurrences like head or other injury and can die.
> I would never blame someone for lack of knowledge, nor for lack of action of getting in the water in that scenario. If the video was from recent days then entering the water to perform a rescue is highly dangerous.
> Winter sea Water is cold. on entry You will probably hyperventilate for about a minute. you will have useful function of your hand for about 5 minutes (perhaps longer this year as the water is a balmy 8 degrees) unless you are old, infirm or have poor circulation, where it will be less. Your ability to coordinate and use you limbs will reduce and you will probably drown from being unable to move your limbs to swim. Wearing winter clothing may inhibit your ability to swim.
> Waves will vary in size and freak waves can be 3 or 4 times the size of the 'normal wave '. From a beach with Surf you may also get caught in a rip current which could deliver you tens or hundreds of metres off shore very quickly unless you can escape its power sideways.
> Stay safe... keep well away from the sea edge in rough weather
>
I agree with you and others who advocate not putting yourself in danger, and that is the general advice to people who find themselves in such situations.
It's very logical.
But we are human beings and don't think such matters through logically when we see a loved one drowning, in this case the woman's husband, she acted instinctively to try and save him. I don't know about the relationship to the man in yellow but he may have been a relative.
I don't know about the rest of you but if I saw my partner or child drowning I'd have a go. I'd like to add that I hope I wouldn't have been foolish enough to lead them into such a dangerous situation in the first place, but again people's concept of what is dangerous is often poor. Maybe these people were townies unfamiliar with the sea and it's unpredictability?
Who knows? But I think we need to show some empathy to such people when they react instinctively to try and save life rather than dong the "correct" thing.