In reply to evansliam:
Is this an actual problem you commonly experience outdoors or one you're concerned you might experience?
20kg difference isn't huge (assuming you're not both really light). With high first bolts (clipstick the 2nd) and careful belayer positioning close in to the wall a bit of a launch isn't something to worry too much about, slamming into the bolt is. An assisted belay device, shoes on and a helmet for the belayer are a good idea if big launches are expected, it's much easier to keep control of the rope while fending off the wall if the belay device is locked and you are ready for it, wearing appropriate protection.
Adding a bit of weight in the form of spare rope, shoes, water bottles etc into a rucksack used as a 'sandbag' (not worn) may provide the reassurance you're after. there's often a lot of deadweight packed into roadside crags.
jk