In reply to RichardMc:
Hi Richard,
Nearly in the same situation as you!!!...Have a large tumour sat in the middle of my chest. Am having very complex surgery on the 11th to try and remove it..this was the only option..at least the oncologist told me if I didnt have it I would have 12 to 18 months.
Now I sit here shitting myself that I am going to "wake up" post surgery to find out is was not successful..would rather not wake up!!!..that how I feel..and I know its tough for my friends to talk to me..but I do wish that they wouldnt state that its going to okay, but their thumbs up, smile..and then walk away thinking thank f*ck its not me!!!!!
So Richard happy to go for a pint with you anytime???..and chat the day/evening away
and the comments from Trangia are also extremely relevent...I get tired, breathless and under the weather, and do get friends who phone up and I do not answer...
"I phoned you the other day"
"yes sorry, was under the weather and resting"
"well I thought I would help and support you..I had 20mins free time to chat!!!"
and sorry whilst I am having rant
I am trying to put some weight on prior to surgery, and it not going well..and as intelligent people we know, there is a complex physiological relationship between cancer and wieght loss (its one of the first questions your GPasks)..so please you are my friends no more comments "just eat more pies!" isnt funny and doesnt work.
Was also going to mention about how your loved ones support you through this...I'm giving mine a real hard/shitty time at the moment!!
If anyone want to start UKC climbers support group, that can chat about any of this, happy to be part of it, Happy to give my number if anyone is bad enough to want it?
Cheers
Nick B