In reply to winhill:
Circumstances at the time of the general election acted to hold people who wanted to vote for sensible economics and restraint in spending,(rather than increasing the national debt and being in denial about the effects of that) to referendum ransom, as the only option was to vote for the conservatives, as they did have a rational and sensible track record on economics. At the time I did wonder whether to vote for Labour in order to avoid the referendum issue, but I did not want to be in a country that ended up with uncontrolled debts and subsequent severe inflation and other sequels.
When being "sold 'the manifesto, we were told that the referendum would not be necessarily binding(and indeed it is the case, that legally, we are not obliged to exit the EU); yet it looks as if the Conservative party and others do not see that the close run referendum result should be discussed carefully, but rather are going headlong towards the exit with lousy parameters for trading and will likely still be governed by most of the rules of the EU(such as the free movement of people). We did not expect that the layout of the referendum would be so poorly managed, such that there would be no requirement for a certain level of vote to trigger a change in the UK's situation with respect to the EU. Most sensible countries would expect at least a 10% difference in the two sides,before a change was considered.
The manifesto of the Tories did not suggest that there would be falsehoods put about in the campaigning beforehand. I expected the Conservatives to have the referendum under much tighter rules and scrutiny, but they did not calculate for any of this. They did not have a plan for the situation where the out vote won either.