In reply to Pesda potato:
If I remember rightly, the study that concluded 'red meat causes cancer' was a deeply flawed epidemiological thing. I.E it looked for correlation, not causation. Whilst lumping obese/smokers/drinkers/etc in with the 'eat more meat' group. Therefore meat = bad. Much like in the 1970's the manipulation of data that resulted in recommendations to cut fat in the diet, which led to it being replaced by carbohydrates.
Everything I've been readying suggests fish, fatty red meat, offal, eggs, is good. Fruit oils - coconut is good can be heated as it's largely saturated and therefore stable, virgin olive oil is good, mono-unsaturates, but do not heat.
Pork/lard is interesting. Was warned off it by my gastroenterologist as being inflammatory = bad. Which I confirmed by eating pork the day before a couple of my regular blood tests (n=2/lots).
Poultry is fed grain to fatten it up in ever shortening timescales. This seems to result in more omega 6 poly-unsaturates being laid down, than hens allowed to also scavenge in the dirt for grubs, snails/etc. Omega 6 is known to be inflammatory.
Seed oils are largely omega 6 poly-unsaturates.
As for the milk protein intolerance, have you tried a hard sheep's milk cheese, like Manchego. I can't eat cows/goats milk/cheeses without my asthma kicking off big time, but Manchego is fine.
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