In reply to MonkeyPuzzle:
> Please quote where I have said that harassment of any kind is acceptable. Please quote where I have said that paying someone a complement is a hate crime. Please quote where I have said something that alludes to all men being deviants.
"It is in fact the main issue. The rate of which these incidents happen to women will be a factor of tens if not hundreds more than they happen to men, so much though that some women have to worry about it."
You didn't allude to it, someone else did.
> Your argument was that we shouldn't pay particular attention to women being catcalled in the street because it happens to men to and is therefore not a problem of misogyny. My counter-argument was that it comparatively happens so little to men as to not warrant discussion on the same terms. Your counter-argument to that was to pretend that I'd said aggression against men was acceptable, which I clearly haven't. What is the point in debating if you're just going to make shit up?
It happens a lot more than you would be prepared to admit.
No, my counter argument was that you say the main issue is the regularity of it happening. I gave another example of an important issue, and suggested that because it doesn't happen as much, do we still forget about it? Or do we recognise it's a problem for both genders and try and tackle and educate it.
Again. I think you have missed the point.
TobyA: I fear you missed my point with that comment.
Women are the same as men, they are capable of dishing out catcalling and street harassment. They experience attraction and bravado just like men.
I used to work in a mill when I was a young teenager, and some of the comments made by the older women that worked there would have made you lot take a heart attack.
Yanis:
Nobody has yet, however there have been comments made to insinuate that men are salivating sexual deviants with no self control.
And street harassment is one step away from unwanted sexual or physical contact.
I used an example oh men being subject to catcalling or street harassment, and it was brushed over as if it was acceptable or that because it doesn't happen as often, then it's ok. So I decided to kick it up a notch.
If a group of me and my male mates hounded a woman to lift her skirt and give us a flash, you lot would start burning torches and chasing me with a pitch fork.
Yet you somehow seem to think it's acceptable for a group of women to demand I lift my kilt.
It's this sort of trivialisation of issues and segregation that dissilussions people.
Men and women are both subject to compliments but there is a line of street harassment. And is unacceptable. Regardless of gender.
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