In reply to Enty:
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> > On the other hand - I have a golden rule. When I see a car ready to pull out of any junction which would make the car go across my line of travel. UNTIL I MAKE EYE CONTACT WITH THE DRIVER I REDUCE MY SPEED TO A LEVEL WHICH WON'T CAUSE DAMAGE IF ANYTHING GOES WRONG.
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This eye contact rule is an interesting one.
I've just returned from a trip to the supermarket this morning. I was driving along a minor urban road at about 25 mph with nothing behind me when this guy in another car comes up to a road junction on my left. It's clearly my right of way. He sees me and slows down, then we make eye contact. Having done that he immediately accelerates and pulls out in front of me. I slam on my anchors (some instinct had warned me that he was going to do this), he also then brakes and we both come to a stop just inches from each other. Fortunately no crash and no injuries.
This is not the first time this has happened after I have made eye contact with another road uses and it got me thinking about the whole driver phsycology surrounding road crashes. It's almost as though he had accepted that I was coming and had right of way yet the making of eye contact in a perverse sort of way had triggered a response in his brain absolving him of the neccessity to stop.
I wish that without being agressive, but out of sheer curiousity, I had got out and gone and asked him why he had done that, because he was clearly embarrased by his behaviour, and it would be interesting to explore the reasons why people do such obviously silly things?
I know I've been guilty of out of character and illogical agressive driving in the past. For example at the weekend I was following a woman in a car who was clearly lost as she initially did a stupid u turn in front of me causing me to brake quite hard to let her in, then she indicated left and started to turn left changing her mind at the last moment and cutting back in again. She then came to a junction and indicated right where I was also turning right. I followed her round but instead of continuing straight ahead on the new road, she started another u turn making me brake again. I hooted at her and wound the window down to swear at her.
Immediately afterwards I felt ashamed to to have have behaved like that. She was clearly lost, and therefore not concentrating - probably totally unaware that I was behind her. I had already sussed that she was lost and rather than getting impatient should have allowed for that. On reflection I now wish that instead of shouting at her, I should have smiled and said something like "You're obviously lost. Where are you looking for?"
If only we could all adopt that sort of attitude, there would be less stress and hassle on our roads. But going back to the subject, I remember my driving instructor in the 1960s telling me we should all drive/ride assuming that the other driver isn't going to do what you expect them to do. He said that there's consolation in the fact that you were in the right if you finish up on a mortuarry slab.