In reply to Andy Gamisou:
The list below has some classics and some more recent items, including a few I really want to read. How could I resist ‘We Are Legion (We Are Bob)’?! And the Ware Tetrology looks like the kind of headf@ck that I enjoy.
https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/best-sci-fi-books.com/24-best-artificial-int...
Of the more recent titles Hyperion is intriguingly nuts but not particularly realistic. A Closed and Common Orbit is decent. Ancillary Justice is good but overrated. The Diamond Age is enjoyable but long, and is more about nanotechnology than AI itself.
There are some others there that I imagine you’d find fit your needs. The Ted Chiang should be just the thing- I’ve only read his short stories but he has a strong science background that he draws on in his work. The Louisa Hall looks like the kind of thing you might like too.