In reply to Baz P:
I can understand your logic with counting the number of pins but I don't think it actually indicates very much. The connectors at each end of the cable will be standard but you can't see which pins are actually connected inside the cable. From a quick Google, most Lightning splitters will be power only, a few will do power and audio, but it's not clear that what you're looking for actually exists at all. I'd be surprised if it did. It's a fairly niche use case and would be complicated to make (probably requiring signing up to Apple's hardware developer program and paying expensive testing fees), if it's actually feasible at all.
You probably need to consider a different option for whatever you need the other half of the splitter to do. Power the other device from a charger in the cigarette lighter socket? Check whether your car has another USB socket hidden away somewhere?