Not work / life balance as I seem to have that in check, but life balance - as in too busy and need some chill time!
Between being a volunteer at a local club on a week night, following my own sport training goals, and chasing those of my children I am finding it very difficult to have an "off" night, makes planning to do something very hard, and there is no spontaneity either - every night is booked up - I try to keep Sat free to enable some quality family time but invariably something crops up, and Sunday is normally taken over by some sort sport for either me or the children.
How do I resolve this - my sporting goals take a back seat, stop my children from taking part in sport/clubs, etc. - I already have aligned some of my training when their training is on but it still means we are busy 5 nights of the week and then on Sunday.
Whilst people invariably say you should enjoy the time with your children, encourage and nurture them in sports etc and that with them time is short it doesn't seem short when you have another 9 years or so to go before you can see them moving out and you get back to focusing on you - or am I being too selfish?