In reply to Jenny C:
Am I the only one who thinks "good" when I hear of it becoming uneconomic to pay for childcare and better for one parent[1] to stay at home and bring up their own kids, as IMO it should be?
The way some parents talk about sorting out "the childcare" is so impersonal it makes me sad. Almost a commodity, not something that should be the most important thing in the world to the parents.
While she doesn't read in here and so won't see it, I was incredibly pleased that my sister decided she would bring her own kids up at home, using some of that time to do things to save money so they could make it financially viable as well. They're not rich, but they've got what they need, and their two kids (a girl about 6 months old, a boy just over 3 years) are getting a loving upbringing by their own parents, to me so much more important than whether they'll be able to afford a big flat screen telly and an iPad.
They have one car (and pushbikes), but live in a small, walkable town (Ulverston, if anyone cares). I'm certain the kids will be walked to school when they're old enough to go, just as I was, not hurriedly dropped off on the way to work in the city.
[1] Note that I don't care which one, or even if it's both doing part-time jobs that don't overlap.
Neil