In reply to Rob Greenwood - UKClimbing:
I wept when I heard the news of Stef's passing. It was not the first time I had shed tears for him, but these are definitely the bitterest.
I had known Stef for quite a few years, as a climber, in Slide, as an employee and as a friend. He was easy to make friends with. His bubbly personality, his warmth, His generous spirit, his quickness to a joke, his Geordie accent, all added to making the guy easy to like. He was a big character, and drew people to him like a magnet.
I am not a skateboarder, or snowboarder, but I always enjoyed going into his shop. He had a stupid humour much like mine. We would just talk nonsense, and I would leave sometimes with my side aching.
I had absolutely no hesitation employing him. He was the best sales person I have ever come across. He could to talk to anyone on any level, about pretty much anything. His passion for Five Ten was equal to mine, and often there would be long debates in the office as to the best strategy for that brand. His knowledge of the scene far exceeded mine, and I know that all the sponsored athletes liked and respected him.
I have never laughed so hard as when I walked into the office when Stef was on one, or when we were on sales meetings, or when he came round for a meal at mine. Even the last couple of times I saw him, it was a real treat. And I would give anything to have those times again.
The first time I saw his alcoholism in the flesh, I was shocked, I couldn't understand how the two sides of Stef could co-exist. It was really upsetting to see my good friend in such a state, and I cried when I got home. The following years it was obviously a battle for him. I had to let him go - probably the hardest decision of my life - and I wept some more then. I felt like I had cut a limb off.
But it is a measure of the person, that every time he recovered, there were always people to give him a chance again. I have never seen anybody work a crowd like Stef could at an event like The Downhill world Cup, or Cliffhanger. And that is the great tragedy. He really was one of the best when he was sober, but his alcoholism robbed him and us of his real potential.
Big Characters leave big holes when they go. Stef will be sorely missed by me, by his friends at Five Ten UK, by the extended network of other brands, shop staff, athletes and marketing people, all of whom Stef touched.
Rest easy my friend.