In reply to grace jones:
I'm in a similar position in that I'm female and started climbing in the spring. I don't know if you're into indoor climbing at all, but if you are, I've found quite a bit of variation in climbing walls...
I'm from the flat southeast, and I sometimes climb at Harlow wall, and although it's friendly enough, there aren't a lot of other women there... this makes sense when I try the routes and many of them are very reachy and quite powerful - there's a F3+ which I can't get up because the obvious hold is out of my reach so for me it would be a big leap above an overhang (alternatively, I could pull up on a single handhold, but that's not a 3+ move either).
When this got frustrating, I moved to the Castle in London, and the style there seems much more female-friendly - less power and reach, and much more about delicate balance, bendiness and technique, so I can get up the F6a and some 6b climbs there (and it's not just that the grades are an ego-massage, it's that the grading is similar enough to my style that I can accurately judge how difficult I will find the climb, and I have more choice and variety, which really helps). I'm obviously not the only woman who feels this way, because quite often I look around in the top-roping area and see that men are in the minority.
So personally, I have managed to improve my climbing and get a feeling of achievement by playing to my strengths and "climbing like a girl". I've taken some complete noob male friends climbing, and at the beginning, they could outclimb me because they had better arm strength. But I've been persevering with the indoors practice, so these days I can outclimb them because I've had to learn the techniques (and they fall off the slabs with teeny weeny footholds because they have GREAT BIG FEET).