In reply to chickenpox:
> (In reply to sihills) When I leave the house and get in my car I am aware of what is about to happen, I am in control of what I am doing.
> Now if I put someone who had never driven on the road before control of my car then I would be lucky if they didn't crash it or cause some kind of an accident.
You aren't comparing like with like here, are you?
You often drive on roads which you have got no previous knowledge of.
That is just like soloing a route that you have no previous knowledge of.
When driving, a dog could run out in front of your car, or you could have a blow out, or a tree could fall on the car. The unexpected might happen and you might be seriously injured or die. In fact, you know that this regularly happens to experienced and careful drivers.
And yet you take the risk anyway. You would even drive with a child as a passenger, knowing that there is a risk of an accident - after all the statistics show many children involved in car accidents every year.
Everything that you do in life involves risk - walking up the stairs in your house is soloing, albeit at a very low grade!
Lumping all soloing together doesn't make sense - after all, have you ever soloed a moderate as a descent route? Most climbers will have done at some point.
Soloing a short, solid grit route at a low grade, well within your capabilities is a completely different thing from soloing on loose rock at the limits of your capabilities in the Himalya!
People solo for different reasons - because it is quick, convienient, thrilling, full of freedom, daring, to impress other people, to impress themselves - why assume that you know their reasons?
Your arguements against soloing also apply to climbing itself. A none climber could make exactly the same arguements against climbing and say that you are foolhardy to indulge in climbing - why do it at all? To proove you are brave and a hero? (no - that isn't the reason is it? but try explaining your reasons - it can be impossible if the other person simply doesn't feel the same way about the activity).