In reply to Flicka:
What a heart warming thread.
-10 to 15 ish - all girls had fleas (so my dad said) so no dramas there
At 16/17 18, never wanted kids, drink/parties/good life instead and make use of the hormones I was given.
20+ thought about it, but then thought......narrh keep going on my own and do all the the things 'I' want to do.
24 Joined Army loved the life, thought about settling down/children etc
30 Left Army - still thought about family life and how special it actually is
35 (now) good job, house, single, no children.
some good points maybe, some guy's would love it, but on the flip side, deep down I knew I wanted to father at a young age, but spent too much time with my head up my own arse and (sometimes think) missed the chance!?
At this stage in my life i would love to have a son or daughter, and like your thoughts have already told you it depends on the right person. I know guys I left school with, one in particular had 3 children by the age of 22! I do believe that the social surroundings/family can pre-predict <(if there is such a word) your progression in life, some people choose and are happy with a family at a young age, and some leave it until an older age and are equally happy.
So I think there really isn't an age, just when it feels right?
My Brother put it (at 40, wife 26), on his new born recently - "the amazing thing is, is the un-predictability of it all"? what ever that means!
and after a few half drunken words, what I think what he was trying to say in his own little words was - it really doesnt matter, because when the time comes to be parents and knowing your about to be a mother or father totally outrides any human feeling or emotions and age or anything else just really dont count.
its a gift, and feel blessed if that time comes