In reply to tlm:
er...can't remember for sure. It was Trowbarrow and I've a feeling it was Jean Jeanie and I failed to get up it on second (and haven't tried since! maybe a trip is in order...).
I also did my first lead on the same day which was Jomo which is a good memory to look back on but scared me witless!
Mate led the first slopey bit which I easily seconded (happily would have led I think) and up to the ledge. Then he passed me the gear and said "oh...I forgot the big cams I meant to bring up for this one. Ah well you'll be fine". I get up under the roof and he remembers "oh crap! I meant to send you up a different one first then this one. Oh well, you'll be fine. It's scary but it's easy".
I bravely spent ages trying to get some pro in while staring at the massively polished edge I'm meant to put my foot on. At this point I don't have a clue what a layback is (the other options there though I've used the edge when climbed since) and certainly wouldn't have been able to pull it off.
I eventually get a hex in but it's not great - I don't have a big enough one to get it to sit right. I should be ok as long as any fall pulls precisely down. I go to make the move, my arms take my weight...and the hex falls out!
Back down and try again. Utterly failing. It's not an easy move to protect without a big hex or cam even when you know what you're doing.
After a while and another failed attempt I'm sat thinking "why oh why did I think I'd enjoy this. I don't think I'm doing this again". Mate soloed up and after much faff managed to get a dodgy hex placement and two opposed notes (which I'd have never known to do at that point) so overall a sort of ish, maybe, acceptable pro.
Made the move with some grunting, got to the top, and felt amazing.
Suffice to say it didn't stop me climbing but I do still wind my mate up about his two "oh crap" moments.