In reply to martinlird:
> Fall practise has been advised before, but I didn't think anythin of it. But it seams thats the way to go. I only climb very infrequently, as I always struggle for a partner. So that may have a something to do with it.
Call me old fashioned, but I find it difficult to understand how much fall practise for beginners is loosely recommended and accepted on here. To me it is only safe to practise in controlled situations on some indoor routes or certain routes outside with someone you trust. Just getting used to trusting your partner, by letting them lower you off is often sufficient in the early stages.
Even with practise and the improved confidence that comes from getting used to falling, it can provide a misplaced sense of security. You might get away with an unexpected fall leading on bolts or on a top rope. But transferring this skill outside and leading easy trad climbs, which are usually not very steep and full of obstacles it is not really something you would not want to practice. (the sort of climbs required for alpine practice)
Getting used to falling is a good tool to help experienced climbers improve their grade by overcoming fear. But even then I have seen young trad climbers (who now operate at quite high levels) take falls on trad as though they were leading on bolts.
However, it sounds like your issue is more one of a climbing relationship than climbing itself. I suggest you get in to a routine with a regular partner you can trust (probably harder to do than the climbing itself) or with an instructor who will help you focus on the right things in the right order. Joining a climbing club such as the Clwyd, Chester or Wrekin mountaineering (all operate on crags in your area) is another route to meet new partners.
Indoor Bouldering is another option, it can be done on your own and can be more sociable as well, hence easier to find partners. Of course there is UKC as well.
Unless you are in the tiger category, put enjoyment first and gather experience slowly, you will last longer at climbing and enjoy it more on the way.