In reply to Duncan Bourne:
> I agree with that. The field of play has changed and we need to think how we are going to use it. The internet makes it hard to lose the stupid actions we make in daily life. As a teenager I did some really stupid things that if I did them now would be there for all the world to see and for as long as the internet exists. It is not so much about thinking about what we do ourselves as developing tolerance and compassion for the deeds of others. If the drunken dance we did with a traffic cone at the age of seventeen gets us the sack when we are 36 or stops us getting a job because the potential employer found it on Google then something is wrong.
Hmmm, interesting and wide ranging.
I have somewhere written a review of the Foo Fighters second UK gig, in a Marquee tent at Reading Festival, whilst Bjork was lighting up the skies with fireworks as part of her show on the Main Stage, and I can probably locate that review.
(I'll have a go at that in a bit)
On the other hand, sorry, but there is a point at which we have to admit that some people are too f*cking stupid to be allowed to use computers / social media networks and so on and so forth.
I've just done some work in a school, setting up a wi-fi system, and although I spent most of that time in the IT Technical Support office, when we went out to install APs and POE switches, I saw (on every notice board) warnings about bullying, and bullying via mobile phones and bullying via Social Media. Warnings telling people to be aware of how their actions now will be on their "permanent record" as such.
People want the liberty of "free speech" without - apparently - realising that it implies that whatever you say is going to be open to the scrutiny of the whole world, and that scrutiny might use your own words to demonstrate that you are a nasty, horrible person.
See my rant thread about Frankie vs Rebecca
I'm sorry, but in the case of the post about Tom Daley's dad, the poster was very clearly a very stupid person making an very insensitive and personally nasty remark to someone who has suffered a bereavement.
The least possible response to the twitterer is pointing out how utterly contemptible his comments were.
Was he somehow asleep through the whole incident about the racist comments directed at other twitterers who replied to Liam Stacy's comments about Fabrice Muamba?
It was fairly major headline news, but it's possible that someone who is totally ignorant could be unaware of the possible legal consequences of being publicly nasty to someone in the media spotlight.
Not that the fact that Tom Daley is a "celebrity" should make any difference. That should be irrelevant, it's just that such incidents tend to become media feeding frenzies, as the papers have to sell advertising, and thus making such incidents into a "cause celebre" makes them money.
You have to be fairly stupid - Frankie Boyle? - to do things like this and think it's funny, but even Frankie's comments about Becky Adlington's nose pale into significance when suggesting that someone's recently deceased dad had been let down by someone competing at the Olympic games.