In reply to John Ballantine:
> > So the questions now are:
> 1. Why is she hooked.
It gets some people, it leaves others cold. It may be a passing fad that she'll move away from. All my kids started climbing not long after I did, but my eldest is the only one who's kept it up. Whether it's a flash in the pan or the start of a lifetime's committment, only time will tell.
> 2. Why does she look at the cards below the routes.
Not familiar with the wall she's using, but the cards will have a difficulty grade, nd may also specify whether,eg, feet use bolt on holds only, or whether smearing's "allowed". That's purely a grade thing. If she smears on a route that states "feet follow", eg, then it'll be easier than the posted grade.
> 3. Why does she keep keep bouldering when the skin is off her fingers.
Sounds like she's very (over?) enthusiastic! You need to apply some common sense here. Muscles develop faster than tendons, and she's at a stage in her life when her body's changing rapidly. If she climbs too much, she runs the risk of tendon damage which will be very painful, and take a lot longer to recover from than finger skin or muscle damage. Don't discourage her, but make sure she warms up and down properly, and stops at the first sign of any finger joint or elbow joint pain.
> 4. Am I being responsible or irresponsible by not even thinking about letting her climb outside at this stage.
Neither...it's your call. You need to decide what's best for your child in the situation that you're in. I had my kids climbing outside when I wasn't a very good climber myself (still aren't!). BUT, even though I wasn't (aren't) able to make hard moves, I've taken great pains to ensure that my ropework is good, and that I have an appreciation of how to escape the system and get out of trouble, etc. I'm quite happy climbing outside with my 16 year old, and have been since he was about 11.
If she really wants to do it, then finding someone safe to take her out is up to you. You could of course pay for an instructor/ guide....someone like Libby Peter is very highly skilled, she's patient, she's "child friendly" and as safe as you could wish for.
> 5. Will she progress to outside climbing.
Only time will tell.
> Dave you seen these pictures of climbers, everyone I've seen shows someone hanging upside down 3,000 ft up a cliff face with no rope. Scared nah I'm s***ing myself to let her go climbing outside.
Presumably when she learns to drive, it won't be in a formula 1 Ferrari in the middle of the British Grand Prix, which is the driving equivalent of those pictures you're seeing. There are loads of short routes, or longer routes which aren't too steep, with big ledges at convenient points and the ability to protect them with gear to your heart's content.
Having said that, all climbing is potentially dangerous, and requires eternal vigilance. I know of 3 nasty falls at local indoor walls in the last year, all by very experienced young climbers who simply forgot something basic, like finishing tying in properly before climbing, or had an inattentive belayer.