In reply to frano81:
Totally endorse what Jimbo said - even if you're not into bouldering (I'm stunningly crap at it), you can still use it as a 'laboratory' for route climbing.
Watch better climbers on boulder problems you've climbed/attempted. Zero in on their technique - arms straight, hips in, Egyptians, 'building your feet', then pushing through from your toes, heel hooking, knee bars, etc, etc.
Think feet, not arms. I know that sounds counter-intuitive.
Take it easy. Don't be in a rush (otherwise you'll get injured and you'll be back to square one.) Give it time. It's a life-long process. And you've got the rest of your life.
As the Yanks say, "Enjoy the process..."
Good luck.
Mick