In reply to marsbar:
> ........... one bad experience with a dog doesn't have to cause a lifetime phobia for a child.
Doesn't have to , but can. Parents did their very best to try and teach me not to be afraid, but when a kid won't even walk past a well trained dog on a short lead it's an uphill struggle
> One of my Scouts was petrified of dogs. ..........................Eventually he decided that he wanted to stroke the dog, so we had the dog sit down and be calm and an adult hold the lead, and he stroked the dog. I would never have believed it, but he was so proud of himself, and his dad was so pleased too.
I remember aged 7 going up to Jungfrau on the train and going on a husky sled ride and parents being amazed when (after much coaxing) I finally managed to stroke the huskeys - probably the scariest thing I had ever done in my life!
As an adult I can cope with some individual dogs, but it comes down to behavior and others totally terrify me. Unfortunately what makes me flip is usually overly enthusiastic rather than aggressive behavior (barking, running towards me, jumping up etc.) - for instance MIL's collie is soft as a brush but I can't walk into the house without someone holding her collar and even then I am agitated and hiding behind BF using him as a human shield.
However BF's springer who was nervous never really bothered me (and this was a dog who was grumpy and not disinclined to snap or snarl if she felt threatened) as we both gave each other a wide berth, so by the time I finally plucked up the courage to interact with her she had already accepted me and we had a great relationship.