In reply to Big Ger:
> Yes, but should we conduct every conversation on this forum in in such a way to mitigate the risk of confusing someone with Asperger's syndrome?
Nope. However, unless I misread, the OP's replies seemed to indicate that they were taking some of the joking responses seriously (for whatever reason).
At that point, it seems unkind to continue deliberately confusing someone for one's own entertainment.
> If the OP is by "Mountain Spirit, ( it's possible,) remember, after an initial ribbing, he was given many offers of help support and advice.
That's not exactly what I recall happening. He did get many offers of help and advice, but also relentless mockery from people who were convinced he was a troll, despite various people witnessing that they'd actually met him and that his naive-sounding questions were genuine and sincere (I'm one of the people who's run into him at a London climbing wall, and not to put too fine a point on it, the fact that he has major disabilities affecting communication and understanding is really obvious in person).
He also got people making fun of him for saying things that other people had told him on other threads, which he'd taken literally. When he started noticing sometimes (or someone told him) that people were giving him joke replies and asking "Are you yanking my chain?", people made fun of him for *that* because they thought that was an odd or "American-sounding" phrase.
Multiple threads got deleted by the moderators because the mockery of him got so unpleasant.
Eventually, if I recall correctly, he made plans with someone to climb outdoors but cancelled at short notice (and I don't find it hard to imagine why someone with major disabilities who clearly finds a lot of things challenging might find the idea of travelling to meet up with a total stranger somewhat daunting when it becomes real rather than a dream, and panic at the last minute), at which point much of UKC seemed to declare that this was an irredeemable sin, he was a lost cause, and deserved all he got.
It was not pretty to watch.