In reply to BedRock:
> I don't want to ride on a piste. ever.
Well, those skiing near you will be in for good laughs...
There are 3 kinds of skiers in the bakc country:
1) Freeskier turned ski-tourer... Utter s*iteshow on the way up, due to downhill oriented heavy gear and lack of mountaineering skillz. But will gun down no matter what kind of conditions the downhill portion is and with style. Can read terrain and avalance conditions.
2) Climber turned ski-tourer... Might struggle on steeper skinning terrain, but ones the skis come off, reasonably competent especially when it comes to rope-play. No clue how to ski (up or down), nor skillz to read the terrain (other than for climbing, which really isn't helpful on the way up or down with skis).
3) A ski tourer... Has background in either climbing or skiing, and spent enough time on the weaker side to get competent in it. Often experience of in both disiplines for numerous years.
So, if you have no experience in skiing (downhill)... well the downhill portio9n is going to be problematic for a long time. What you need is time skiing downhill, and lots of it. You will not get this in many years if you only tour (unless you live in SLC, which doesn't seem to be the case). So going to the piste is something I would suggest... and actually if starting from scratch, take lessons...
Or do it the hard way, and faceplant for quite a few years... which ain't all that fun, especially with the sharks lurkin' under the snow...