In reply to Ian Parnell:
Keith and Pru (parents), Katharine and Vicky (sisters), and Louise (Jules’ partner) have been overwhelmed by the number of wonderful comments you have made here about our dearly loved Jules. We have also received many more than a hundred letters and cards, not only from close friends and relatives but also many from folk who knew us or who knew Jules through only one or two meetings.
Many of you were able to come to Brobury on Saturday to celebrate his life and others expressed their disappointment at not being able to be there. Thank you to each and every one. Your contributions - cards, letters, photos, documents, talks and slides, and just simple good wishes and expressions of support were such a comfort to us and will continue to be so in the future.
Our emotions were high, and we omitted to thank all those who contributed to a marvellous day. May we do so now? Thanks to all those who helped us to fill the house with flowers, for the many shared recollections of Jules in one to one conversations with us, and to those who showed their support just by being there. A goodly number of people cut short their holidays or travelled long distances to be with us. From our hearts, we thank you all. Jules was a very lucky guy to have such friends across all parts of his life, not just the climbing community. All Jules’ friends are welcome at any time at Brobury. Please come and visit if you are passing by on your way to Pembroke, or for whatever reason.
We will be creating a fund in Jules’ memory to help young mountaineers. As soon as we have a clearer idea of how to do this to best effect, we will share our ideas with the climbing network and ask once again for your help.
We will remember Jules for the happiness he brought to us all, and for the commitment he brought to his climbing, and indeed to all aspects of his life. There are many crumbs of comfort to sustain us at this desperate time. Firstly, Jules achieved more in his 29 years than most of us will, were we to live threefold longer. Secondly, Pru and I, and Katharine and Vicky take great comfort from the fact that Jules had expressed only very recently to friends how much he valued us as his immediate family and how we had played such an important part in his life. The pleasure was all ours, Jules. You made all of us proud of you.
Finally, and most importantly, we know that over the last few weeks of his life, Jules was happier than he had ever been. He knew the route his life was going to take, he knew how he was going to make that journey, and he knew his chosen travelling companion. He was fulfilled in his purpose and in his relationships.
Jules, we loved you beyond measure. We still cannot believe you are gone. Thank you for being with us, even though the time was nowhere near enough.
Keith, Pru, Katharine, Vicky and Louise