Truly inspiring Rob. A great account which is both moving and entertaining.
What a story - despite all your tribulations, still a minute quicker than me and I had no excuses!
Thanks a lot, it makes me feel a bit less bad about the sciatica which is currently keeping me off the hills, at least I don't have the horrible disfigurement (or the scars 🙂)...
Bloody hell, Rob! What a story - heartwarming, inspiring and scary all at once.
Thanks for sharing Rob. Fascinating, Horrifying, Inspirational and Heartwarming all in one piece. An epic story of accomplishment.
Brilliant, Rob! Thanks for this - inspirational and a definite wake-up call for those of us who struggle to get off our arses at the best of times!
Cheers, Andy
Lovely piece of writing Rob. You and Penny are very lucky to have each other
Inspirational on many fronts Rob. I was shocked and had no idea of what you and your family had been through, and I must admit I felt a lump in my throat as I finished the last few sentences. Really well written with such an open, modest and intimate style. Climbing wise you are obviously back - a free solo of Broad Stand. Respect.
I was recovering for a few months after knee surgery this last year and thought I'd been through a bit of a meat grinder. Turns out I'd had a mere blip on the radar reading your account. Amazing to read, really inspiring stuff.
Holy christ that was quite a read, fair play to you. Glad you're still here.
Wow, a great and inspiring read.
I’m not crying, you’re crying!
What a team you guys are. I sincerely hope that is the worst year of your lives. And look what you achieved in it, a BGR and a new addition to the team.
Great read, well written and thanks for sharing.
Wow! That is an amazing story of perseverance and endurance and survival. Well done, to you and your whole family.
I had to stop reading! Sounds and looks horrific, glad you’ve made a full recovery (I assume, like I said, I never finished but doing the BG suggests the worst is over!). I might dive back in and read the rest as I am keen to be inspired by the Rocky style comeback training.
I think you could say that the year you have described so well in this article was truly epic.
Well done, I hope you are all restored to good health.
That is so cool Rob. What an amazing writer you are, not to mention everything else, so brilliantly told. This article alone is worth a literary prize
Amazing. I usually find myself easily wandering off reading stuff on my phone, but this was such a real, warm, funny telling of life. Bravo.
I don't know what to say but well done (which doesn't seem to cover the half of it!). Hope you and the family are all ok.
This is simultaneously horrific and inspiring in equal measures.
You have made an incredible recovery, I can't fathom getting the fitness for the BGR from sitting on my arse working, let alone from being in intensive care.
Without wanting to go off topic too much, this story also reinforces my antipathy to how the GP system is implemented in the UK, it should have never got to the point where a standard manageable condition became life threatening because of "muh, probably gastroenteritis".
I very recently (as in last week) contracted actual bacterial gastroenteritis while on holiday in Greece and the very first thing the doctors did (after a COVID test) was checking it's not appendicitis, presumably so that things like this don't happen to people...
What a year! To complete the BGR in between all of that is unfathomable - outstanding effort. All the best for your number one priority.
Wow - you and your family have been thru the wringer - well done for enduring and surviving, and then doubly impressive to do a solo BGR after all that. Great article, thx for sharing (and thx to the NHS too)
Thanks a lot Rob! Your postscript had me bawling my eyes out. Had to pull myself together for my post lunch meeting......
What a fab story. Hope Penny's doing better and congratulations to you both.
GPs give the NHS a bad name imo!
And respect to Rob and family, up there with the best of ultra running and recovery stories!
Thanks for sharing Rob - such a well written piece; the final paragraphs are particularly stirring. I think I must have something in my eye
I literally have no words!!! WTF, what a story!!!
> This is simultaneously horrific and inspiring in equal measures.
> You have made an incredible recovery, I can't fathom getting the fitness for the BGR from sitting on my arse working, let alone from being in intensive care.
> Without wanting to go off topic too much, this story also reinforces my antipathy to how the GP system is implemented in the UK, it should have never got to the point where a standard manageable condition became life threatening because of "muh, probably gastroenteritis".
I was sent home by my (female) GP with menstrual cramps, as I 'wasn't in enough pain for it to be appendicitis'.
That was aged 30 - trust me, after over 200 cycles I know my body well enough to know that that was not normal. At least they took bloods as a precaution and the next day sent me to hospital, so I got surgery to remove the appendix before it actually ruptured.
Congrats on the recovery and the round Rob - well written and all the best!
Thanks to everyone for the kind comments.
I'd originally titled this article 'reflections on a weird year', as that seemed to encompass just how strange it really was, although it's been stranger still to reflect upon a year later, as it all felt pretty abstract - like it happened to someone else.
Whilst I have the physical reminder of what happened in the form of my large (and very weird/bulgy) scar, it's been easy to forget the rest, and writing this has given me a good excuse to remember.
Thanks once-again,
Rob
Blimey. Well done.
Hi Rob
Long time since we climbed together & by torchlight I think. Read your story, though not sure I 'enjoyed' it! It rang some scary bells for me, as I went through a very similar experience in 2009. My wife rushed me to hospital with a suspected appendicitis but after 5 days in absolute agony (& then on morphine) they opened me up to 'explore' & found a strangulated intestine. I ended up with a similar scar to you, looked 20 years older & walked like an 80 year old! Like you, the road back to full fitness took time, but it happened. Nothing quite like a close call to remind you of what's important in life.
See you in Llanberis sometime.
A hell of an inspirational tale with unfortunate NHS mis-diagnoses at the start. But what a recovery and against such problems. Well done that man!
> A hell of an inspirational tale with unfortunate NHS mis-diagnoses at the start.
To misdiagnose something you have to attempt to actually diagnose and get it wrong. It does not appear that any such effort was made... I understand not wanting to see him the first time, but the second is ridiculous.
Thanks for sharing, inspirational. Here’s to a better year next year for you all! See you around some time.
Such a fantastic read! Well done Rob
Great article Rob, well done.
Chapeau.
Far too good a story to rush at my desk, saved and went back! My kid had a burst appendix one Christmas and I've been involved in a couple of BGRs so have some clue. Winner!
Wow!! That's an incredible story.
Rob must be a contender for the unluckiest man in the land.... Taking off on a B.G. round to get away from it for 23hrs!!
I think you were unlucky with your wound opening up after the clips were removed. I had a similar incision five years ago when part of my large intestine was removed because I had bowel cancer. The nurse who was trying to remove the clips was so tired he was literally falling asleep when he tried to take them out. I suggested that he ask somebody else to do it.
When I came round after the operation I was attached to a morphine pump. When you start to feel the pain you click a button and it sends a dose of morphine into your blood. It's regulated so you can't overdose.
My hospital has what they call "Rapid recovery". Soon after you wake up you are dragged out of bed and marched along the corridor. One of the nurses gave me a Tesco bag to hold all the various tubes and bags coming out of my abdomen.
Sounds like you’ve been through the ringer and come out the other side to make a remarkable recovery. Out of interest, were you given the option of a face to face with your GP? Ring 111 at any point?
Great article. Really inspiring stuff and I’m glad you’re all on the mend
> Sounds like you’ve been through the ringer and come out the other side to make a remarkable recovery. Out of interest, were you given the option of a face to face with your GP? Ring 111 at any point?
Sorry, I totally missed this one coming through - I was on holiday in Cornwall at the time.
No option was given for a face-to-face meeting with the GP, because (at least from what I remember) they didn't want people with suspected norovirus/gastroentritus in/around the surgery. Whilst I did speak to them on the phone, I actually passed the phone over to Penny, because I traditionally underplay whatever it is I'm going through - hence give the impression that I'm fine. Penny, however, could provide a far more accurate of the situation and tell them how f**ked I really was!!
When I was eventually admitted to hospital it was late at night - hence we had to call 111 - and it was at that moment they told us what we should probably have been told several days before, which was to get ourselves to A&E immediately.
There's definitely a part of me that wonders 'what if...', but I've tried not to dwell on it too much. It definitely feels like it was preventable, but for one reason and the next wasn't.
With hindsight I'd just have called 111 straight off, but alas - here we are...
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