In reply to sjc:
Staying close in obviously helps reduce the injury risk from flying in but if they're in danger of hitting the first clip then a sandbag (and/or skiping the clip) is pretty much essential.
Using the sandbag properly requires some care, as has been pointed out the root you to the spot, tangle ropes and pose a trip hazard. They can also be a menace if the leash is too long leaving you flying with a heavy pendulum between your feet or flipping you if attached incorrectly. Too short a leash and it's uncomfortable, draining and distracting. Placed between your feet it's annoying and a little uncomfortable, in front of them it's a useless hazard, beside you it's out of the way but you risk spinning and swinging into the wall back-first.
I think I'm about 4-5 stone more than my partner. Even with a sandbag she's up at the first clip (which I skip for this reason) when catching a proper fall even with just my knees/shins at the last bolt.
On balance I'd suggest using the sandbag to begin with, build up the fall size gradually and see how it goes. Oh and I'd not worry too much about softening the fall with slippery devices or flying belayers, so long as they don't haul in slack you'll hardly feel it.
jk