In reply to clochette:
> (In reply to climbingpixie) That bit about the 30 days trial period sounds good. Did you buy off the web?
selle italia used to have a 30 day try and return deal for their saddles. not sure if this is still the case. it did also apply to purchases on the web - such as wiggle.
ideally you need to support your weight on your sit bones.
(as you bike more and get stronger more of your weight will be supported by your legs and possibly your arms, but 'down below' - only on the sit bones and not on any soft parts).
good advice from the posts above.
- get measured - your sit bone position is particular to you.
- buy a saddle at the harder end of the scale - you sink into a heavily padded seat until material is pushing against parts that you don't want pushed against. harder seats initially punish the flesh over your sit bones a little more, but ride enough and it's stop being a pain.
- is the nose of the saddle up down or neutral / level? - drop it if it is pointing upwards. maybe drop it one notch anyway. look out for pain in the upper back behind the shoulders and pain in the wrists and elbows which may indicate that you are resisting sliding forward off the seat as you ride and that the seat angle is too aggressive.
- are you varying your position on the bars plenty? - if you move on the bars then you also make tiny movements on the saddle. this can help to prevent pressure pain from sitting in exactly the same position for too long.
- stand on the pedals for short bursts once in a while for the same reason.
- has someone assessed your position on the bike. is your saddle forward position correct? are you constantly shuffling backwards? if so then you might not actually be sitting on your sit bones - you might be perching on the nose of the saddle a bit too much.
depending upon whether the pain is from pressure or rubbing or a combination of both:
- good quality chamois / shorts. here is not a place to economise imo.
- try a chamois creme.
finally - and most women don't need telling this to be honest - clean shorts & cleanliness down below, before and after a ride are very important to prevent any sorts of infections.
deal with any minor sores etc asap. tea tree for cleaning after a shower and then plain talc are good for drying.
open sores or raw bits can be helped with sudacrem.