In reply to Babika: Thanks for posting that Babika, very interesting.
Very disturbing to hear about the theft of your gear by some a***. It is possible (just), that your headtorch was taken by mistake, as someone else may have had a similar one, but gear taken from your mate's harness can only be theft. In mountain huts we all depend on collective honesty, as we can't watch everything all the time, apart from (quite reasonably), sometimes leaving stuff in a hut for a route, that we intend to pick up later. I tend to think that easy access, hotel style huts like the Gnifetti are much more prone to this sort of abuse than remote, climber only huts, but climbers can also behave badly, though not in my experience actual theft, more blatant leaving of large amounts of rubbish for "someone" to collect. I have seen this in some very remote, difficult to access bivi huts, where only serious mountaineers could have reached on a number of occasions, including the Eccles bivi hut quite recently.
It would be nice to think that those who love the mountains will treat them right, but unfortunately this is not always the case. You have my sympathy for the theft, for what that is worth, alas not much I suspect.
I think you made the right call to get something done even if it did require a guide. At least it sounds as if you had a great mountain day, so there is one positive from the trip. I did that route many years ago, but in the reverse direction, from the Dufourspitze to the Margherita, it is certainly memorable. Unfortunately I still have to climb the Nordend, but what would life be without objectives?
Hope overall the trip feels worthwhile to you.