In reply to cheek to the rock:
In case it helps, I have the a set of each of the following:
rigid friends, flexible friends, camalot C4, dragons, metolius offsets, totems, WC zeros, plus various other historic cams
These are my feelings:
I only take the rigid friends if I really need to.
Nothing wrong with the flexible friends, but I much prefer the camalots.
I find twin ax-style cams are easier to place fast and get stuck less often.
I carry the dragons on moderate British trad because I like the extending slings.
I'm not sure why, but I find the camalots better than the dragons if I have to place them fast. It might be the thumb loop.
The totems are great for aid or as a second set.
The metroilus offsets I only carry for aid
The zeros I use but for some reason they don't give me as much confidence as other small cams. This is probably unfair on the zeros.
I prefer the size 5 and 6 friends than the same sized camalots.
I have not used Camalot X4s
If I was buying my first cams I would buy a set of camalots or dragons. Then if buying a second set the totems.