In reply to mattrm:
vote for MSR pocket rocket with MSR stainless pan set.
you can fit everything into the pans (pocket rocket, wind shield, tea, coffee, chocolate, sporks, gas canister stand, wooden spoon), just don't for get the gas!
Oh and some boiled sweets to hand out while you wait for the water to boil
I've carted that setup around for years although admittedly it's not been used in very cold conditions.