In reply to Chris Ellyatt:
You have had some decent advice on this thread, I am probably only going to repeat what has been said.
First off, I wouldn't say that grade spread was unusual particularly if you haven't been leading long. I think leading, especially when you start out, is a specific skill which you need to conquer in its own right. The biggest factors here will be psychological, and are learned just like physical technique but in my experience take longer and are harder won unless you naturally 'have a head for it'.
I agree with everyone so far who has said there is no minimum standard for redpointing, and I do think it would help from what you have said. It would mean you can separate out the psychological elements of leading near your physical limit from technique and also the specific issues of onsight climbing. Even if you start out redpointing something you would consider easy (my first outdoor redpoint was 6a+) don't underestimate the confidence boost you can get from redpointing something harder than you have onsighted, for convincing yourself of how you
could onsight in an ideal world.
When I started out leading indoors I got to onsighting 6a+ fairly rapidly but did notice that things slowed down significantly from there. The things that helped were getting stronger through bouldering, so I knew I had the ability to do the moves (it sounds like you have done this) and just lots and lots of leading to get used to climbing above your clip. Mix in a large amount (say 50%) of leading within your limit where you feel completely unbothered. People do not learn well when they are scared, and if you are spending a large amount of your lead time trying to push your grade, you will a) be learning poor technique, and b) be conditioning yourself to associate leading with feeling scared.
Do continue to try to push your grade on lead however.
> I'm starting to think I have a psychological commitment problem when leading or something. Or is it just due to pumping out when clipping? I can't understand it.
In all likelihood there is not one single factor. It is most likely the reult of all these things. You are pumping out when clipping which is making you stressed, which affects your mindset making it harder to continue to press on upwards, which makes you more pumped, which means you start fumbling clips, which makes you more stressed etc. etc. etc. What you could do is to strip out all of the elements and practice them individually. If you clip slowly, practicing leading within your grade will help. You can also specifically practice clipping by getting a quickdraw and a bit of rope and practicing clipping in its various orientations. Do it while watching TV or something until it is like second nature and you can do it without having to focus on it.
Intimidation when leading is a big factor and can be addressed through a number of strategies. There are tons of climbers who don't think too much about this and just crack on with doing lots of it, and this works fine for many. Personally I am quite an introspective person and find this stuff fascinating so quite like the conscious mental process. Isolating what's going on with something so open-ended as 'intimidation' or 'a bad lead head' is a big job in itself and will likely take a number of years, so settle in for the long haul. There are top competition climbers who still have lead head problems if they haven't done it for a while, don't assume that there is a quick-fix, or that once fixed, it is fixed for good.
There are lots of things that could be going on, fear of failure, fear of success (yes, it happens) fear of falling, fear of being out of control - but all of these fears are large categories and lots of quite specific things can all be lumped together into the same pot. It's a complex beast and that is part of why climbing is brilliant. Simply trying to analyse
why you are intimidated is a good start, and then working out strategies for dealing with specific fears using general techniques (eg. progressive desensitisation) is a good way to start chipping away at it.
There are some good mental training books out there, The Rock Warrior's Way is good but is written in very Americanised language and is offputting for some. I think there are some powerful ideas in there though and he takes an all-round holistic approach which considers all angles, so it's worth persevering IMHO.
Performance Rock Climbing (the psychedelic coloured one) is getting a bit dated now (there are better books out there for the physical side of climbing) but still has a good section on the psychological side and some practical mental tactics for dealing with it, such as visualisation and 'progressive desensitisation' for dealing with things that intimidate you.
> I took a pretty large fall recently (about 15-20ft), my first "proper" fall, so I should be over the psychological thing. But I just can't get my leading grade up!
Just want to pick up on this, don't assume that one whipper will 'cure' a fear of falling overnight. Dave Mac makes this point better than I can:
http://onlineclimbingcoach.blogspot.com/2009/07/beating-fear-of-falling-in-...
There is also a thread on here at the moment where we were specifically discussing fear of falling which also has more links you could explore.
http://www.ukclimbing.com/forums/t.php?t=383042
Hope there is some stuff of interest in that ramble.